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Hosting Teen Parties

Maintaining your duty of care

 

Smoking/Drugs

  • Consider whether or not smoking should be discouraged or forbidden. The hazards to health are well known.
  • Take particular care and vigilance to prevent situations where illegal drugs may be available. Drugs and alcohol combined are particularly harmful and can lead to inappropriate and sometimes dangerous behaviour.
  • Be aware and monitor the status/condition of young people regarding drugs and other substances.

Entertainment

  • Check with the local council to see if there are any by-laws controlling volume of music and general noise.
  • Notify neighbours about the party, including start and finish times, to reduce likelihood of any complaints.
  • Stop the music at the designated finish time.

Ending the Party

  • Close the bar about 30 minutes before the end of the party.
  • At the designated finishing time stop the music and turn all the lights on.
  • Be aware that your responsibility does not cease at the front gate.
  • Parents should supervise the departure of the guests to avoid them congregating in the street - preferably guests should only leave when transport is available. Police presence at this stage may be helpful.
  • Ideally find out beforehand which guests are being collected by parents and which require taxis. Pre-order sufficient taxis at specified staggered times (refer 'security item 3').

Behaviour

  • Consider the standards of behaviour you expect and stand firm about these expectations. More parents and young people are keen to support you than you might expect.
  • Consider contacting the parents of guests who are extremely drunk.
  • Consider how to deal with situation where a student is behaving badly (eg call parents, isolate from main party, call police).
  • If uncontrollable situation develops don't hesitate to call the police.
  • If student is unwell - drunk, vomiting, etc. - consider contacting parents. If parents are unavailable, have contingency plans eg put in separate room and observe student constantly or ring for an ambulance or medical assitance. Excessive alcohol consumption by teenagers who are young or inexperienced can pose great risk.
  • Be aware of the ramifications of allowing inebriated teenagers to leave your premises without the supervision of a responsible adult.

No on wants to stop your teenager from having a good time, but a little planning may prevent the memories of a celebration becoming a nightmare. Awareness of potential problems can help ensure an enjoyable and successful party. Most importantly, discuss all these issues with your teenager and listen carefully to his or her ideas and opinions.

These are guidelines only and you need to sort out what works for your family and to modify your ideas as your teenager matures.

   
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